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India is a land of diverse culture and religion. Every region of the
country has its own unique way of celebrating their marriage. Be it east,
west, north and south all the four regions have its own wedding customs and
rituals. Marriages in India are not just coming together of two individuals
and exchange of vows and rings, but it marks the bonding of two souls, two
families, their culture and their communities. Indian wedding is not an affair
of few hours but it is a matter of several eventful days. All the family
members and friends get together for the celebration.
It is said that marriages are made in heaven but celebrated in country like
India. The marriage rituals and customs unfold different stories behind it.
Condensed over centuries of cultural admixture, Indian weddings showcase the
rich culture and tradition of India. The practices of Indian wedding are
different according to the particular region. There are various rituals with
which you can associate an Indian wedding. The wedding celebration is divided
into three parts pre wedding, main day and post wedding. The pre wedding
rituals vary according to the region. But the ceremony of mehendi is prevalent
more or less in every caste and region. The ceremony of mehendi is celebrated
mostly at bride's place where female friends and relatives of the bride gather
to put henna on bride's feet and hand. Among the other rituals garland
ceremony is the most popular rituals, which is celebrated more or less in
every part of the country. On this occasion the bride and the groom garland
each other as a sign of mutual acceptance. On the main wedding day a wedding
altar or mandapa is built on the wedding venue within which the marriage is
conducted. The rituals, which were performed on that day is totally based on
the regional customs and traditions. The ritual of putting sindoor or
vermilion powder in the parting of the bride's hair by the groom is the ritual
followed mostly in the northern and eastern part of the country. Rituals like
kanyadaan, vidaii, tying of mangal sutra around the bride's neck, saptapadi
(seven steps), in which the couple moves seven times together around the fire
exchanging the wedding vows, here fire acts as a witness of their marriage.
These are some of the common rituals practiced in all the castes.
The wedding rituals were initially simple and easy to follow but nowadays it
has become more complicated due to unnecessary customs like dowry. The custom
of dowry is mostly prevalent in the marriages in villages. In educated and
high society families dowry system is not seen so much. But whatever may be
the rituals and customs the actual essence behind all wedding celebration is
the union of two souls, two families and two communities. And that makes
Indian wedding an unique celebration of culture and tradition.